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If the Human being is Unhappy and Unsatisfied, then he/she has Learnt that which was Hammered into him/her

If the human being was unhappy and unsatisfied from his/her childhood and still is today, then the reason for this is that already very early, as well as in the course of his/her youth and his/her maturity, he/she has learnt to pay careful attention to what the ones bringing him/her up and also fellow human beings hammered into him/her in regard to ‘right’ and ‘wrong’. They could do this – and perhaps can still do this today, if he/she is still under their influence – because he/she was or still is dependent upon them. However, that already in his/her childhood, youth and also in maturity he/she has consciously or unconsciously always behaved defensively in some way and probably still does this, has allowed him/her to survive in consciousness-thought-feeling-psyche-based form. Hence the fact is that over all the years of his/her life up to now, he/she has learnt to distance himself/herself somewhat from the inappropriate criticism and rejections on the part of the ones bringing him/her up early on as well as the ones otherwise instructing and advising him/her. An action on his/her part which caused and perhaps also today still causes those who have brought him/her up, instructed and advised him/her – or still do this today – to be satisfied with him/her and at least not rake on him/her with nasty words and not rudely criticize him/her.

However if now it is assumed that the whole thing belongs to the past, then henceforth it is only the past that shall be talked about. Hence observed and considered from this perspective, everything is a long time ago and in a time set back, just that he/she had to follow the accommodating, the thinking and the wishes of others and dance according to their tune. Thereby at the very least unconsciously he/she has not forgotten the negative past, which was brought upon him/her and hammered into him/her, thus still today it burdens him/her and makes him/her unhappy and unsatisfied, without him/her probably being conscious of the origin of it. However the fact is that he/she could not assess the modes of behaviour which were hammered into him/her and negative responses of others in his/her childhood, youth and, under certain circumstances, also in his/her maturity, thus he/she was also not in a position to avoid their criticism and violations. The whole thing has so very deeply imprinted itself on his/her memory and today extensively determines his/her unhappy and unsatisfied life, namely, in...[article continues with this link]